Saturday, 24 May 2014

Why do men think women are complicated?

Women are complicated. We have more emotions, more hormones that try to control emotions and or have a large part of our reactions (we have to learn to control them)....we think with emotions actually we are more organized and our minds can do more things than one. Women are more intuitive and sense things more. We care more..we are caregivers and we over think things and yes....we can be drama queens.

We Over Analyze - This is a common reason why we are so complicated. One tiny comment or words were being uttered then suddenly the woman talks longer(as usual) and on the process she interprets it completely different to the meaning which it originally had.

We tend to takeThings Out of Perspective - Similar to the first one. A very small problem, making it complicated and make it a bigger one. love to argue a lot. After a bit a man will just shut up and take it and walk off or tune out and not listen..they are good at practicing to listen and hearing NOTHING!

We have a Special’ Language of our Own - Most women can’t say directly what they want to say. Instead they use these ’special’ language that they could only understand. They make men try to figure out what they are really saying. Thus men are clueless!
Why do men think women are complicated?
Here are some of our ’special’ language:

1.) Fine! - This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up.

2.) Five Minutes - If she is getting dressed, this means half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house.

3.) Nothing - This is the calm before the storm. This means something and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with “nothing” usually end in “fine.” (Refer back to #1 for the meaning of “fine.”)

4.) Go Ahead - This is a dare, not permission. Don’t do it!

5.) Loud Sigh - This is not actually a word , but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to #3 for the meaning of “nothing.”)

6.) That’s Okay - This is one of the most dangerous statements a woman can make to a man. That’s okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.

7.) Thanks - A woman is thanking you — do not question, or faint. Just say you’re welcome.

8.) Whatever! - Is a woman’s way of saying YOU ARE AN IDIOT!!!

9.) Don’t worry about it, I got it - Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking “what’s wrong”, and for the woman’s response to be, “nothing”. (Refer back to #3 for the meaning of “nothing.”)

*They are Always Right - When a woman speaks, man should listen… then go with their decision as well.

I could go all night with other reasons written on the Internet but those are still similar to the 4 reasons I’ve stated. I really enjoyed reading the ‘battle of the sexes’ if who’s more complicated between the two genders. To be honest, I might agree sometimes with some of their statements and reasons but IMHO men should also try to consider and understand why women act like that. It really depends on the personality of a person(man or women) and the way you handle your partner. Women are more delicate than man, so we should handle them with extra care and patience (and I mean patience as the same as understanding them or trying to..meaning don't jump off the truck..but THINK!) Men hates arguments but we should also listen and do something about it so that same mistake or argument wont happen twice. If both of you are caught in the middle of an argument, chill out both of you. Never let it ruin your good relationship. This works for both genders.

Men adn women both have to learn to stop putting pressure on each other when there is a misunderstanding. It is easy to paint each other in a corner where you can't back down from...so when things get hot and heavy...stop the pressure and agree to disagree and forgive each other for not being the person you need them to be at that moment. We will never be completely the perfect person. Right?

If women are complicated, so men are. Men is just as much a mystery to women as women are to men. So there is a equal playing field. It just so happens that we are human who sometimes losens a screw.

Men also tend to do the DUMBEST things we can't understand. For some reason they do things that do not make sense and if asked they dont' have a clue either.

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